still truckin'

So, the issue of attachment disorder never goes away, does it? I have slowed down quite a bit in my private practice because of my disorganized multi-tasking. But clients continue to find me without advertising or pursuing clients. One of the most common ways is to find websites that list therapists in the different states. I also have testified in court recently. The legal system and attachment disorder is such a scary combination.
I have begun work on my cd's and when school is out in 2 weeks, I expect a number of materials to emerge, as I have been working on them in my head for years. I am now chomping at the bit to get things going.
Don't you like my cute colloquialisms in the blog? I have found myself using humor a lot lately.
Again, some advice for parents - DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY - IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU. IT IS THEIR PROBLEM BUT THEY WANT TO MAKE IT YOUR PROBLEM. Paste this on your refrigerator!!
Please feel free to respond to my blog and let me know what you would like to see. I know there is material out there, but it gets hard to live with the "relentlessness" on a daily basis.
Good luck to all - remember, you may get them to 100% success, but you will give them more than they would have had. Also, they may never appreciate you, but that's not your fault.
Take care,
Chris

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